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Room to explore.

I do think it would be beneficial as a society if we practiced a freer form of love. Not necessarily openly fucking everything with reckless abandon. But, rather, allowing our partners to explore themselves and the world around them more fiercely. Love, as I see it today, is very conditional. It’s this idea that as long as our partners fit with in a specific set of conditions, constructs and expectations, we will continue to love them. That’s a bit fucked up in my opinion. I think we need to give our partners room to explore, to make mistakes, to grow and to experience this life to the fullest. I think we need to remember that we are lovers, not keepers.

By Cole Schafer.


P.S. One day these one minute writings will be a big book called “One Minute, Please.” Can I let you know when that day comes? You can say yes, here.


Cole Schafer